|
 |
| Monday, December 1, 2008 |
| Depth of an attachment equals to the depth of gaining or losing? |
I guess my articles had always start with the statement "Have you ever...", its kinda when ones says "once upon a time". I tried to write in a different way but then I guess it might not make any sense. I would say maybe this is my "trademark". Alrighty...here it goes:
Attachment, the feeling of affection for a person. Its not necessary for the other half of yours, I mean your spouse or partner. It could be mildly friends, colleagues etc etc.Why do we feel attached to someone? Is it due to the fact that we spent almost half of our daily life or most of our time,we spent with these people? Or is due to the fact that we grew up with this people? Or is it due to the fact that there's something "attractive" about the other parties? Or is it that time determine the rate of fondness you have for a person? At times, it seems that this kinda "attachment" emerge out of nowhere. And one fine day you realize that something is missing when that particular someone is not around.Everyone of us drift in and out of one another's life. Some of us just leave without saying a word. Some of us leave due to disagreement. Regardless of whatever the reason is, we leave an invisible imprint in that person's life forever.
Do you think or feel that its difficult to prevent yourself from being too attached to someone?If that particular person leave our life, how do we erase that imprint of his/hers? Or maybe we will not be able to erase it at all and time is like dust that cover the imprint? And one fine day when a strong wind came by and swept away the dust, that particular imprint emerge itself and"appear" right in front of us...and when we looked at it...how will we feel? Maybe happy cos those were the memories that you and that person holds. Maybe sad if the person who leave the imprint is no longer in your life...and maybe you will start to wonder and ponder what had happened.
Life is funny at times, we're afraid to give too much of ourselves and yet we give ourselves unknowingly. We tried not to be too attach to anyone but yet we're attached to certain people after some time. Ain't we contradicting? I guess matter of the heart is something that all of us have no control of.
The beauty of every friendship is the attachment that we shared with one another, giving ourselves without asking anything for return...But the sadness of every friendship is also when you realise that you're so attached that you felt lost when you lose it. Therefore, does depth of an attachment equals to the depth of gaining or losing? |
posted by Jude @ 11:58 PM  |
|
|
|
|
|
|
