To some of us, life is like a roll coaster ride. There's always ups and downs, excitments and disappointments etc etc. And to some of us, life is like a calm voyage...not much of happenings. So are you in a roll coaster or on a voyage?

Regardless..Let's say that if you're in a roll coaster when the "ups" get too "ups", would you want it to get a little "down" or vice versa? And let's say if the voyage get too calm, would you prefer to have a little storm passing by?

All of us went through different stage of life. There's many ups and downs in life. Sometimes the sky can be sunny at this moment and , its all stormy the next. Each day, as you open your eyes to the day...not knowing what is awaitng for you or what you are expecting out of the day. Whether it will be a cool weather or will it be raining cats and dogs. Not knowing if it gonna be a smooth ride to your destination or will it be another bumpy one. If we happen to be caught in the rain, we can either use an umbrella or maybe find a shelter and wait till the rain stops. If we hop into a cab and it get too bumpy, we can hop out of it and hail another cab or simply endure the ride till we reach our destination.

But in our life story, when we really hit into some issue. Can we do so? Can we just used an umbrella or just hail another cab? Can life be so easy? When we hit into some issue at work, can we find a shelter or some covers and wait till the calm weather comes back again? If we hit into some issue with our relationship, can we run away from it...and hop out of it, like we hop out of the cab? Realistically, we can't do so. I guess maybe some of us will or can do so, maybe due to the fact that some do not bother about the consequnce. But we, human...had somehow been "train" subconsciously, to consider all consequences before making a decision. As we grow older, we consider more than we used to.

When we come face to face with a hurricane at work, some of us will stay put and guard the fortress, some of us...run for the nearest possible shelter within reach. Some of us, just drop everything and run for our dear life! Actually, I guess depend how many time the hurricane decide to hit close to home. Everyone of us had a limit. I guess to protect oneself, most of us will just chose to move on from the current place. Or maybe consider the "moving on" attempt. But sometimes, some of us take too long and get stuck in the "moving on" stage. Why do some of us never really get to the "moved on" stage? Is it because we don't just quit at the first hit? We want to stay put and deal with the issue or trouble at hand. But if the same problem and issue, just kept surfacing again and again. When its getting too tough to make it through everyday. Then why have you not move on?

When we come face to face with a hurricane with our relationship. We all tried to sort it out but somehow maybe it just don't work out, and we are leave devastated after the storm. The relationship ended, one might moved on, the other might just get stuck in the wreckage for a long long time. How long it will take ones to move on? I had spoken to many, most...in fact all had said that till they found someone else. Its like waiting by the roadside for the next available cab to come by. Is it true that to forget our ended relationship, we have to find another substitute...in order to move on with our life?

So in your life now, are you moving on or had you already moved on?